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Community of Interfaith Retreat Leaders

We are a community that believe the sharing of Divine love in the spirit of peace, service and humility is our highest purpose. 

Founders:  Bruce & Ruth Davis


As awareness rests in the heart, an indescribable joy from within unfolds. 
​Bruce Davis  

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Bruce Davis PhD, Co-Founder

​While a graduate student, Bruce met and became an apprentice to a remarkable Shaman who had the gift of entering into and teaching people in their dreams.  For four years, Bruce was introduced to many realms and worlds outside normal western thought. These years were to be the beginning of Bruce's quest to understand the potential of psychology and spirituality. 
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He received his doctorate from Saybrook University. As a spiritual psychologist he teaches the essence of world religions, how psychology and spirituality intertwine offering a more integrated, centered, and fulfilling life. ​He has taught at JFK University in Pleasant Hill, California and many spiritual centers in the United States, Germany, Austria, France, and Switzerland. 

Bruce has been guiding retreats worldwide since 1983. His retreats are based in his deep connection to silence, simplicity and heartfulness. He has a gift for guiding people from the busy-ness of the mind & personality to the home of the quiet heart. He supports people who have had a Near Death Experience NDE or spiritual awakening helping to integrate these experiences into daily life.  His primary intention is helping others to develop a meaningful spiritual journey, built out of a life of joy.

In 1975 he wrote the book The Magical Child Within You which has been said to be the first book written on trusting and nurturing the inner child.  A few years  later he co-authored another best selling book Hugs & Kisses about loving life, which has been a theme of his work ever since.

Discovering the heart of awareness including inner peace has been the focus in his retreats.  Bruce has taken people to sacred places like Assisi, Italy where participants discover the sacredness within themselves.  For twelve years Bruce and Ruth (his wife and partner) lived in Assisi, founding the Assisi Retreat Center where people of all backgrounds are welcome to enjoy the simple peace and spirit of St. Francis of Assisi. The Assisi Retreat Center received the official blessing of Pope John Paul II for its ecumenical work.  Both CNN and Travel & Leisure Magazine named the Assisi Retreat Center as "One of The Top Ten Meditation Centers in the World."  In 2012 he and his wife Ruth, opened Silent Stay Meditation Center in California.  It is Bruce's wish to provide a sanctuary for everyone who yearns for inner peace towards finding their own path to a purposeful, joyful life.

Through the years, Bruce studied and lived with spiritual teachers in India, Philippines, Germany and Bali, Indonesia.  He and Ruth led a program of taking teenagers from one of America's wealthiest communities into the poorest neighborhood of San Francisco to give food to people living in the streets.  This program is still ongoing with the help of Branson School students in Ross, California.
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Books by Bruce:  The Magical Child Within You and Hugs and Kisses, Bruce is the author ofThe Heart of Healing, Monastery without Walls ~ Daily Life in the Silence, My Little Flowers, Simple Peace ~ The Inner Life of St Francis of Assisi and The Calling of Joy, The Love Letters of St Francis & St Clare of Assisi.  His latest book is Unveiling The Heart of Awareness.


A retreat is time to come home inside yourself where the mind stops and silence of the heart begins. 
Ruth Davis

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Ruth Davis, Co-Founder

​At age six, Ruth had a spiritual awakening in her first ballet class.  Her heart burst open to the divine and joy filled her body.  She felt she was dancing to God, the all and everything.  Her heart was no longer only hers but she felt a kindness to every human.  Her dance became her devotional practice, which eventually matured into the energetic studies of Yoga, Chi Gung and the movement of consciousness through the body and beyond the body.

Ruth began meditation practice at the age of 16 in 1968 when she embraced Surat Shabd Yoga as her spiritual path.  Shortly thereafter she started visiting holy sites in India including the Punjab region, Rishikesh, Hardwar, Varanasi and most recently Chennai.  She is a continuing student of Vedic, Tantric wisdom & Mystic Catholicism, with particular connection to the teachings of Ramana Maharshi, the silent saint.

She raised 2 daughters and has 2 grandchildren.  Business & family life alongside spiritual practice have always been her world view. She holds certifications in Ayurvedic Medicine, Clinical Hypnotherapy & NLP. In 1993 after the death of her first husband she committed to leading spiritual retreats worldwide with her current partner Bruce Davis.

In 2000 Ruth and Bruce founded the Assisi Retreat Center a Temple to the World Religions in the heart of the ancient city of Assisi Italy and in 2002 opened Silent Stay Assisi. In 2005 she felt compelled to the Wisdoms Mothers of the East.

From this yearlong contemplation sprung;
  • a meditative movement practice called Sacred Movement Ritual.  In the style of Chi Gung it contains sprititual lessons and energetic practices of the Wisdom Mothers of India.
  • two books: 
                ~Sacred Movement Ritual, Yoga Philosophy in Movement 2007
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ourneying up the Mountain with the Tantric Goddesses, an Initiation into the 10 Cosmic Powers 2022
  • plus the ability to connect students to their spiritual heart, their essence or core of being, from where all answers are avialable.
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In 2012 she co-founded Silent Stay Meditation Center in Vacaville, California.  Having served over 2200 guests a wildfire came through one fateful night in 2020, burned the center and 220 other homes to the ground.  But one thing remained..... the peace found in the silence, which can never be taken or destroyed. 

She currently lives and works in Montectito California with her husband Bruce Davis at Silent Stay Retreat Center (located in Pacifica Graduate Institute). Ruth provides private sessions outside of retreat dates for those seeking a deeper path into their heart, the energetic core of their being, where we are all one with the Absolute.


Introducing our Heart Team

Occasionally our Heart Team will support Ruth & Bruce Davis at our Montecito location.

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Nicole Becker
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Nicole draws on 30 years of immersion in the radical acceptance practices of Classical Yogic & Tantric philosophy and world devotional/mystical practices. She delivers a simultaneously simple and sophisticated yoga practice that harmonizes the whole being and heals the personal and collective nervous system. Her teaching is expressed with authenticity, depth, graciousness, humor, and a sometimes uncanny intuition of exactly what you need to feel and hear.  
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Nicole teaches you how to do "your Yoga" - emphasizing a natural and personalized approach including movement, breath, rest, and meditation. Her movement classes are a unique blend of traditional yoga, yoga therapy, modern somatic exploration, developmental movement, meditative inquiry and laughter. She assists people of all ages, experience, and fitness levels to get curious and stay compassionate. 


Nicole is a certified HeartFullness Meditation Teacher and part of the interfaith teaching team, trained by Ruth and Bruce Davis of Silent Stay Retreats. www.centeredintheheart.org

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Brenda Brisch - Assisi Retreat Leader 
Brenda has been lovingly guiding contemplative retreats for over 40 years and has devoted much of her life to spiritual inquiry.  After practicing Transcendental Meditation in the 1970’s, she studied Vedanta philosophy and yoga with an Indian monk from Gujarat.  She began teaching Hatha Yoga in his school in Chicago shortly thereafter.

In 1976, she met her teacher, Swami Muktananda, with whom she traveled widely for many years. She became a monk under his auspices, and he instructed her to continue teaching in Europe, India, and the United States.  She was the swami in residence at his ashram in Paris. 

​She joined the Silent Stay community of retreat leaders in 2016, teaching in California and Assisi, Italy. Brenda helps people discover their own pathway to inner peace, and to understand that all of life’s circumstances are a guide to finding the stillness within.

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Vinod Ravindranathan - Assisi Retreat Leader
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inod has been practicing meditation for over 30 years.  In 1994 he was trained in Vipassana at the Wat Ram Poeng monastery in Chiang Mai, Thailand.  Although not a buddhist monk,  he accomplished the same degree of training.  A few years later he earned his Mindfulness Teacher Training from Bangor University. 

​He currently facilitates the Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction Course in London. 
In the earlier part of his career, he worked in the corporate world as a lawyer before joining various non-profit organisations including; the UNHCR and Amnesty International Secretariat in London.  In Amnesty International he helped people dealing with sexual & gender equality, migrant & refugee rights, compassionate care for drug addicts and animal welfare.

Vinod finds joy in sharing the heart practices of St Francis as a guide to inner peace.

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Igusti Ngr Oka Adiputra El Aleph - Program Coordinator Bali, Indonesia​

Gusti, native to Bali, lives in a area near the Mother Temple.  He lovingly guides us to the sacred places, temples and ceremonies. He is a bright light representing the beauty and wholeness of Balinese culture and spirituality.  His warm open heart is a gift to us all.  He has become a village leader and collects donation to bring food to those in need.  
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In Gratitude

We are honored to teach alongside our Heart Team. Their extensive commitment to spiritual practice, community life and heart filled journey, is a gift to everyone.  

EXPERIENCE The ongoing presence of peace

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We are a non-profit organization (501 c3) serving people since 1983..  We support people of all religions, countries and backgrounds to live a deeply meaningful life.


Your donations help us transform people's lives.

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Residential Retreat Center Lodging & Program:
Pacifica Graduate Institute
801 Ladera Lane

Home Office
​750 Ladera Lane

Montecito, California 93108

805-329-1553​
  • Home
  • Silent Retreats
    • Dates | Costs | Registration
    • The Healing Effects of Silence
    • Resources After Your Retreat
  • Heartfulness
    • Heartufulness Meditation
    • History of Heartfulness
  • About Us
    • GIVING Back
    • Applying for a scholarship
    • Founders & Community of Interfaith Retreat Leaders
    • News & Reviews
    • Books & Writings >
      • Books by Bruce Davis, PhD and Ruth Davis
      • Contributions by Bruce Davis Ph.D online
      • Book & DVD, Mary Prayer Flags by Ruth Davis
  • Sacred Journeys
    • To Assisi, Italy
  • Contact Us
    • Terms & Conditions
  • Facebook Live
  • Guest Shares
  • PHOTO Albums
  • Gift Certificates
  • Yoga Centered in the Heart
    • Hatha Yoga with Nicole Becker